Dating a cancer man online
Everything is done with careful research, from the car he drives to the new phone he purchases. After all, Cancer men value stability above all things, and he'll take time deciding if you're safe. All this means that he's asking you out because he's thought long and hard about you as his SO. Before we started dating, I told a mutual friend I wasn't sure how I felt about my now-boyfriend.
I told her I needed more time to think of him as a potential boyfriend. He didn't try to make plans with me or even text me for four months afterward. Reject them once, and they'll retreat into their shell.
First off, before a Cancer guy even asks you out, he has to do his own extensive risk-benefit analysis about you.
Here's why: Cancer guys are not spontaneous and don't do anything on a whim. They move very quickly when they see what they want.
He’s sensitive, intuitive and he’s got a heart of gold that’s filled with empathy for others, especially those in need.
Though it’s pretty easy to make friends with him, winning his affections can be challenging.
This isn't a bad thing unless you are an Aquarius, Gemini or Capricorn. If you are looking for a clinger, Cancer may be just the guy you want. More than any other astrological sign, Cancer's mood swings are in perfect harmony with the moon phases. When he's in a relationship, it's generally permanent. The male Cancer needs constant encouragement both in and out of the bedroom.
Once you figure them out, you will be able to judge just when to tell him you dented the car and have him laugh it off. He tend to suffer from low self-esteem, though it is seldom deserved.
The Cancer man is a water sign and he has feelings that run as deep as the ocean.
Though he may not always show it, Cancers crave affection. He's a natural-born protector, so it's OK to let your guard down once in a while and let him know that you need him. All his memories are encapsulated in the photos, shot glasses, posters, and other random items he has collected and proudly displayed on the shelves and walls of his room or house. Help him build his collection, and become part of his story.
Lastly, his love for his family is enormous; it’s something you may have loved about him since the very beginning.
The good news is, you usually have all the time in the world. He's not going anywhere, so start taking some notes. They have a long memory, and they will use that against you in a fight.
As you adjust to your role as a girlfriend to a Cancer, you'll no longer feel like you're just treading water. They do not like confrontation, and this makes arguing with them hard.