Cop dating cop does it work
Dating a cop, and especially being married to a cop takes courage.Just as it takes a special and strong kind of person to be in law enforcement, it takes a certain someone to handle the pressures of being in a relationship with a man or woman who wears a badge.If you check out the costume section of any adult novelty store it’s obvious that a lot of people fantasise about dating a law enforcement officer (or at the very least, getting naked with them!) However, as much as dating a police officer may seem sexy, the reality is often more complicated than you might think.It was definitely an area of conflict in our relationship.On the flip side, I’ve heard friends complain that their law-enforcement partners always go out drinking with their work buddies (sometimes to access) to blow off steam.The downside is that they might not always be available when you want them to be, however if you’re the kind of person who (like me) values their alone time, dating someone who doesn’t have a 9-5 schedule can sometimes be a positive thing.4) It’s a stressful job and sometimes that stress comes home with them.
Like dating anyone with a demanding career, dating a police officer is definitely full of lots of highs and lows.
The truth is that, when dating a cop, some days are mediocre and boring, those that do mimic TV you may never even know about due to confidentiality requirements and after a long day, your lover will be tired like everyone else.
Evaluate your patience and strength of character in the face of adversity.
With that said, these are the kinds of difference that could make or break any potential couple – regardless of what their profession is. If you’re looking to date someone who is always home at the same time each day, dating a police officer is probably not for you.
Most people who work in law enforcement do shift work, meaning they might be at work while you’re sleeping and vice versa, and this schedule can change depending on the week/month.