Advice dating he married
I’d wear my moral hat and tell you it is wrong and God frowns at it, but I mean, if I’m giving you tips on dating a married man, it means I don’t qualify to wear one, right?So, here’s what I’ll tell you, there is no winning when you date someone else’s husband.A guy who wants to dedicate himself to you will have separated from his wife, processed the breakup, then put himself back out there.Nobody can jump straight into another relationship with the finesse you may be imagining – sure, it’s nice to think about this guy slamming down divorce papers and rushing off into the sunset with you, but how do you know this relationship is going to last?Anger, disappointment, and resentment may brew, especially if the blame game is being played, and hurt feelings may come to the surface as the loss of the marriage is processed.Post-divorce is a time to separate from the role of spouse, redefine who you are, and accept a new identity and lifestyle.So, don’t mount pressure on him to introduce you to his circle and if he ever decides to, my advice would be, say no.
It is bad enough that you’re already sleeping with HER man and causing her some level of pain.
He will leave when he decides he’s had enough or when his wife finds out and there is really nothing you can do about it.
Don’t pine, don’t blow up his phone and don’t call his wife or family.
You will always be number 2 and that is a very heartbreaking position to be in.
So sis, save yourself and your cute little heart the stress and run as far as your legs can carry you from that knight with a shining band on his 4th finger.